Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Know why a gal tells a guy she feels INSECURE???

"I don't feel secure"
"I do not have a sense of security being with you"


Guys usually shrug at this statement and they are probably thinking to themselves "AGAIN" Well and it is very true, gals always mention this word to their other half and guys just do not have a clue why they are mentioning this "Security" thingy to them. Gals do not mention this security issue for the fun of it or to terrorize the guys already weary mind, there is a reason to it.



A guy may have the money and career and this to a guy is the main source of security they can provide to their gal BUT is that all wat a gal wants? If a guy wants to make a gal really feel secure, he should first "RESPECT THE WOMAN" A simple hug, a gentle kiss upon the cheeks and the loving gaze into her eyes is far more useful than diamonds (Of course a diamond along with the above would be good) and when a gal thinks bout u, it will not be the diamond that you gave that she remembers but the warmth and love you gave.

"ALWAYS BE THERE WHEN SHE NEEDS SOMEONE" and play the role of the punching bag! Sometimes a gal just needs someone she can complain to so LISTEN for goodness sake. There is no need for a solution to the problem. JUST LISTEN!!! Gals are genetically different from guys!

"GAIN THE APPROVAL OF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS" Gals are easily influence by their surroundings especially by they family members and friends. Gain their wrath and they will sprouting nonsense about you to her and in the end guess who is the one to suffer? Furthermore if your gain their favor, they will even pacify her when you pissed her off!

The most important factor to look at "KEEP THE DISTANCE BETWEEN YOUR OTHER GAL FRENZ" some gals will say they understand and blah blah blah. Do you really think that we truly understand? Oh pls! We are born jealous in the first place! If you want to be close to the other gal why bother being with me in the first place! What do you think we are? If you have no absolutely no choice but to hang out with the gal, let your girlfriend know! Be true and honest to her and she will know there is no hanky panky happening!

Last but not least "SWEET TALK PLEASE" Love is a mysterious thing to begin with...although we know...but we still want to hear it...our ears are one of our largest weakness...why do you think we go crazy whenever we hear the word SALE???

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